This won't appeal to everyone, but it's surely some food for thought for most guys out there.
Did peer pressure really phase out after year 11 or did it just become more subliminal? It seems still evident in smaller doses to me. I'm talking about in particular about a the male philosophy for a night out. Most guys goes out with a completely different mindset to girls. The majority of girls go to night clubs with the intention to get a little drunk and have a good time with their mates. Guys go out with similar intentions however there is one additional motive that supersedes the rest; get on girls. Any guy who goes out with his mates with any ulterior motive is branded 'gay' or as having 'no game'. Don't get me wrong here, I fucking love girls, but some girl thanking you for letting her go ahead of you at the bar isn't an invitation to dry hump her whilst she waits to get served. A girl smiling at you as she passes doesn't translate to 'I want you to come over and try it on with me until me and my friends leave where we're dancing'. It seems the second some guys pass the threshold of a nightclub entrance and any gentlemanly behaviour just goes out the window. You can get the occasion you get a girl who is genuinely interested in you, giving you the right signs and all that. Nothing wrong with going home with a bird who was actually up for going home with you too. Like I said, this won't appeal to a lot of guys but someone needed to say it... Act like a bit more of a gent whilst on a night out
